"Studies show that society holds basic generalities about young boys. Boys receive tools, bats, fishing rods, trucks and cars. They are cuddled less, and taught to repress their vulnerable feelings. Boys are encouraged to express aggression and expected to succeed in a profession, never admitting to any need for dependence (Dickstein, 1988).
Within the past 20 years, men have fallen apart emotionally due to broken relationships. The lack of socialization training has contributed to the deficient skills men have to communicate their feelings and express their anger constructively. Men often experience a sense of helplessness in their insufficient ability to cope and express vulnerable emotions; as a result, they become violent in how they communicate and in their behaviors."
has serious side effects
--- from"Lateralus", by Tool
El me dijo anoche, que yo pensaba (o analizaba?) demasiado...
Mercurio en Tauro, en casa 1
When capitalized, the term Ghats is often used in reference to the steep mountainous ranges of India; the Western and Eastern Ghats. They are the coastal mountains of India.Ghats are mountains covered by thick forests. The Ganges River ghat is located between India and Bangladesh which is a sacred river flowing down the paths of water. It is said that the Hindus worship the river as Goddess Ganga."
"I stole it to look for a lot of things."
"A lot of things?" said Ford in surprise. "Like what?"
"I don't know."
"I don't know what I'm looking for."
"Because . . . because . . . I think it might be because if I knew I wouldn't be able to look for them."
"What, are you crazy?"
"It's a possibility I haven't ruled out yet," said Zaphod quietly. "I only know as much about myself as my mind can work out under its current conditions. And its current conditions are not good."
For a long time nobody said anything as Ford gazed at Zaphod with a mind suddenly full of worry.
"Listen old friend, if you want to . . . " started Ford eventually.
"No, wait . . . I'll tell you something," said Zaphod. "I freewheel a lot. I get an idea to do something, and, hey, why not, I do it. I reckon I'll become President of the Galaxy, and it just happens, it's easy. I decide to steal this ship. I decide to look for Magrathea, and it all just happens. Yeah, I work out how it can best be done, right, but it always works out. It's like having a Galacticredit card which keeps on working though you never send off the checks. And then whenever I stop and think - why did I want to do something? - how did I work out how to do it? - I get a very strong desire just to stop thinking about it. Like I have now. It's a big effort to talk about it."
(These are just excerpts of a message presented in THIS article)
"With the advent of the Lunar Eclipse and certain other smaller grand crosses occurring, we have observed the intersection of your so called third dimensional space into the first three octaves of the fourth dimension. You have probably been noticing over the past month and a half certain changes physiologically, a restlessness or sleeplessness at night followed by the desire for major napping mid-day. You are going to see more and more of an experience of loss of current memory. This has been fluctuating due to the magnetics of the planet dropping..."
"...It is critical during this interface of realities and frequencies that you watch and observe your thoughts and feelings most carefully. We have mentioned this before. It is imperative to get into the space of being mindful in each moment. Because it is becoming less and less possible to insulate yourself from what is going on in the outer..."
"When you encounter these temporal distortions do not panic, immediately try to recognize it for what it is and breathe. Close your eyes, focus on your heartbeat and your breath. "
"...Everything in your experience is symbolic. You have out-pictured and created for yourselves a complete list of symptoms and clues about your inner technology. It is symptomatic of the state of your mass consciousness. So the symptoms show up as solar flares, coronal mass ejections, sun spot activity. And you wonder what is wrong with the planet? The planet is trying to deal with all of humanity’s distortions simultaneously. In your prayers and meditations be mindful of the Earth."
"...This is the opportunity to recreate yourself. Now is the time to choose what you would have in your experience, life or death, love or hate or fear. It is entirely up to you..."
"...There is much fear energy around the advent or the return of Nibiru. There is much fear energy that there is going to be some sort of cataclysm. As you wish. We suggest the following. Be Peace. Be Light. Do not attempt to push against anything. Do not attempt to change anyone’s mind about something. In your intention, in your desire to open to these energies and to face your shadows, and to integrate them and love them free, you set the intention throughout the matrix of mass consciousness. That gives all beings the opportunity to set aside the fear. To change the course of reality... "
"... that in the days and weeks and months ahead it is how you treat the asleep ones that will be your salvation. It will be the arbiter of your own soul’s growth. How you choose to work with those that come to you in confusion. Do not give them your biases, your prejudices. Give them your love. Give them your ear. That is what is going to be needed. Healing can merely mean just listening. Just being there for someone or just holding someone. Don’t push anyone away. Give them your full attention. For indeed, as has been given: As you do it unto the least of these you do it unto all of yourselves."
"No os dejéis engañar por las apariencias: en realidad, no hay nada más eficaz que el trabajo espiritual. Si no da resultados inmediatos, es porque el mundo del alma y del espíritu es más difícilmente accesible para nosotros que el mundo material. Pero no hay que desanimarse; si os desanimáis, es que no tenéis ni ciencia ni discernimiento. ¿Cuánto tiempo se necesita para que crezca una lechuga?... ¿Y para que crezca un roble?... ¿Pero cuanto tiempo dura una lechuga?... ¿Y cuanto tiempo puede vivir un roble?.... En la vida interior rigen las mismas leyes: si os conformáis con una lechuga, la tendréis muy deprisa, pero con la misma rapidez se marchitará; mientras que si queréis un roble, debéis esperar mucho más tiempo, pero ¡vivirá durante siglos!"
Omraam Mikhaël Aïvanhov
In short, the new Chiron paradigm asserts that the Wounding and Healing journey is synonymous with the descent and re-ascent of consciousness through the cosmos—with Creation (the Fall) and subsequent evolution (Ascension). Chiron asserts that the Healing journey consists of awakening to the perfection of our lives, no more, no less. It asserts that there lies a Gift within every Wound, waiting to be discovered. (“Wound” is taken in the broadest sense, encompassing the physical, the emotional, the mental and the spiritual.)
In order to fully understand and appreciate these assertions, we must expand our vision well beyond the astrological considerations of Chiron, the planet. In this day and age, it is ever more important that astrology moves toward consilience, i.e. towards the cross-disciplinary unification of all knowledge. The survival and credibility of astrology rests upon this. However, before solving the mysteries of life (!), we must begin with our rogue comet friend and its astrological considerations..."
"...Pluto rules magic. Real magic. Not Cinderella's Fairy Godmother or Hogwarts kind of magic. But real magic: the kind that turns a wispy seed into a giant redwood tree, or a gleam in a couple's eye over a glass of champagne into a beautiful bouncing baby. It can be scary, though, even devastating to those who resist inevitable no-turning back transformation. The blessings Pluto brings are often so well disguised that it takes several years after the transit to comprehend its impact, meaning and great purpose in your life. Pluto comes along and Whammmo! Whatever you were doing you are not doing any more. At first you pretend it's not happening. It's like a knock at the door you refuse to answer. Eventually, however, Pluto plows through your reality, transforming your life. That's why it is always to your advantage to participate fully in all the changes that in time will spark tremendous growth in you mentally, emotionally and spiritually, wherever it happens to fall in your astrological chart. It’s a reality check, a wake up call, all right, a message from the Universe asking you to get hip to exactly what you’re here for, and what you have to do if you want to do what you want to do. It’s the day job we’d love to escape, the diet we tell ourselves we’ll start tomorrow. Well, in 2008, tomorrow is today..."
If you've just fallen in love
then one of you is totally hysterical, off the wall
and hungrier than a bear in springtime
while the other one is playing it cool,
slightly uncommitted and very cool
Or both of you are hysterical and the passion is great
because you're both doing something you shouldn't be doing
because the whole thing is taboo
and completely impossibe
(and thus totally exciting).
If you're in one that's well established
you're probably not feeling loved enough
and fantasizing about all the romance and passion
everybody else is getting
when you see couples kissing on the street or in a bar
so you feel that you've been neglecting your emotional life
and that all your narcissistic needs are not being met.
If you're not in one
then you're probably still
grieving for one you can't have
In any of those cases
the healthiest path
is to satisfy the hunger for romance
any way you can without getting caught or arrested
while knowing that sort of
ravenous passion is temporary
and the more you can step back
and treat the person as a real person
the way you treat a friend
you will more likely be able to see that person
as a real person
and not project onto them
fantasies that have nothing to do with them
but everything to do with
your adolescent dreams.
in case you haven't heard that Pluto's in Capricorn
1. extremely hungry; famished; voracious: feeling ravenous after a hard day's work.
2. extremely rapacious: a ravenous jungle beast.
3. intensely eager for gratification or satisfaction.
[Origin: 1350–1400; ME < OF ravineus, equiv. to ravin(er) to raven2 + -eus -ous]
Este es el mensaje de Michael Lutin para el dia de hoy
en un idioma
que todos entendemos
como debe de ser
"the eclipse has released you
after the crash
and the air bag inflates
the report is filed
tourniquets in place
and the flow of blood is stopped
wounds cauterized and dressed
then life goes on as usual
almost as usual
you have to try to remember though
that at south node eclipses
whatever you've lost
you no longer need at this moment
doesn't really disappear
it's obviously still there
so are all the feelings
good and bad
but hidden for now
a lot of people will be stuck between a rock and a hard place
e m o t i o n a l l y squeezed
and although we'd all probably love to escape reality
there's really no going back to fantasy
and all that is left is to go forward into reality
just watch how it works
The Sun's on the North Node
and the Mars opposes Pluto the doorway to Capricorn
aries be a friend not a lover
Leo you need the person you'd like to get rid of
Pisces have faith you're not being gaslighted
Libra laugh but all you need is love and art (or your kids)
Capricorn stick to business forget sex for now
Gemini go where you've never been and learn
Scorpio turn to your family
Sagittarius speak without fear of being thought nuts
Taurus be professional even though you'd rather stay home
Cancer don't worry about the money, be sexually honest
Virgo clean out, more work, less escape
Aquarius alone doesn't always mean lonely
If you've been obsessing lately,
driving yourself crazy comparing yourself to other people your own age
or any other fruitless mental pursuit in search of
answers to questions that cannot be answered right now
you'll know why we are harping on
the entrance of Pluto into Capricorn,
Besides being one of the most powerful points in the whole sky,
it sends you back to your oldest issues:
Saturn and Saturn and Saturn and Saturn
So Saturn will play a vital role in the expression
and function of Pluto's transit over the next
that is why we're harping on it now
Pluto at the doorway to Capricorn
is the desire for (and fear of)
-con un pañuelo. es lindo eso..
-mira.. yo odio los pañuelos, odio el concepto del pañuelo y todo lo que representa. la sola idea de andar con mocos en el bolsillo... (cara de asco) mira, yo no tengo pañuelos, ni los voy a tener, y si los tuviera, los quemaria, ves?
-...ya yo la brinque..
-que me importa! no me mandes!
-...brincala tu ahora...
-dejame quieta! que brinques tu.. pero bueno...
-que yo me canse
-claro, ni modo...
-no se bien
-por donde empezamos..?
-no se bien
(pasa el tiempo, sin reloj, como el que no quiere la cosa)
-no se bien
-por donde empezamos...?
-nadie me dijo...
(pasa el tiempo, sin reloj, y se apodera de todo un vacio...)
-deja de preguntarme
-por donde empezamos....?
-deja de preguntar!!! no se!
(pasa el tiempo..)
-hehe he he...
(y nos alcanza la muerte)
How often, for example, have you thought a friend, a teacher, or a relative was mad at you because they'd been giving you less attention than usual, only to discover they'd had a personal tragedy in their lives - perhaps a death, an illness, or a family quarrel - that was simply making them withdraw for a bit? Not just from you, but from everyone, until they felt settled again.
I once knew a young woman called Anna [not her real name] who ran into the sister of her first great love, Matt [not his real name.] The two women chatted for a while, and then Anna gave her number to Matt's sister, who said she would happily pass it along. Anna was incredibly excited at the prospect of hearing from Matt. He had meant a lot to her both during their relationship and over a number of years, but they had lost touch.
Weeks passed, and then several months. No call. Anna took it personally. "I must not have mattered as much to him as he did to me," she thought. "If he truly had feelings for me, then he would have called me by now." Anna's thoughts became worse and worse until finally she became quite bummed out about the whole thing.
Several months after that, Matt called. He and Anna had a great talk, at the end of which he apologized for not having called her sooner. "I've had a horrible skin disease," he confided in her. "And I wanted it to clear up before seeing you."
When we take the actions of other people personally, this is our ego speaking, telling us that we are the center of the universe - that everything that happens in our lives revolves around us. Our ego is the curtain separating us from other people's true feelings and thoughts.
Our struggle is to not take everything personally. And to give with our whole heart, even if our judgment is we are not getting enough in return. When we do our part, the energy comes back to us - always. If not from the receiver, than from someone else. Positive seeds produce positive fruits. This is an immutable law.
And remember, sharing is not only a physical thing. Making room in your heart for others and acknowledging that you are not the only person in the world who wants to be fulfilled, can be the best gift to give to your loved ones - and to yourself.
All the best,
en besos y abrazos